First and foremost, you should not go to any other civilization other then Babylonia. Here are some reasons why.
Would you like to have your head stuck on a pole? Or walk to the corner, away from your family and be the person that everyone ridicules and embarrasses? Would you like to be ruled by fear? Or how about not able to own your own land and having to give up a big chunk of your profits to the government? How about having salt in your soil, not able to grow anything? If you come to Babylonia, I promise that none of this will happen to you. But if you choose either of the other two, I promise that all of this bad stuff that you are scared of happening will happen to you.